Sex can’t keep a man or stop him from cheating – Jarvis

TikToker Amadao Elizabeth Aminat, popularly known as Jadrolita or Jarvis, has given her 2kobo advise on relationship and sex. Her comments have continued to raise dust on the social media and have also generated lots of comments from netizens. She said; if sex can truly keep a man they will not be cheating anymore.

In a video she posted online, Jarvis, who is officially engaged to Peller, another TikToker, said what sustains a good relationship is not physical intimacy, but efforts and commitment from both partners.

Adding that in any relationship where they prioritise sex more than other things, such relationship can never last.

Her words: “It takes lots of efforts and lots of me and you to understand it. It must not be one‑sided. It must be equal. I put effort, you put effort. I show workings, you show workings. So it’s not always about sex.

“There are some relationships or marriages where sex is consistent and the man will still go outside and cheat. It is not always all about that.”

For her, strong and deeper values help to sustain a lasting relationship.

She continued: “It takes the grace of God, understanding, love, tolerance… somebody you didn’t grow up with and don’t know from where, with different upbringing and you come together to be with each other do, you think it’s easy?” She asked.